So your man hasn't called you in a few days. Is it that he's "just not that into you?" Or is it that he is secretly a superhero and he's got shit to do? I think maybe you should give your man the benefit of the doubt and stop being so selfish. Think about your city. Should your almost boyfriend stop in the middle of his battle with his arch nemesis and super villian to give you a call? I don't know where you think you're going to go on a date if the city is leveled.
I think maybe you should be a little more supportive.